• Helping Shy but Talented Girls Gain Confidence in the Classroom

    I’ve noticed some of my girl students are very bright and creative but when it comes to speaking in front of the class they become extremely shy and nervous. They have so much potential but hesitate to express it publicly.

    As teachers what strategies or small activities do you use to help such students feel more comfortable and confident?

    Let’s share ideas on how we can gently encourage them build their confidence and create a supportive environment where they can shine.

    Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences!

    Sayeda Afshan Shah

  • @Sayeda-Afshan Thank you for bringing up such an important and often overlooked issue, Sayeda! I've seen similar situations in my own classroom. One strategy that works well is starting with small, low-pressure speaking activities—like pair-share or group discussions—before moving to whole-class presentations. I also assign roles like "group reporter" or "idea collector" to gradually build their comfort level. Positive reinforcement and celebrating small wins really help too! Creating a judgment-free space where every voice is valued can make a big difference. Would love to hear what others are trying as well!

  • Absolutely agree! Starting with small group activities and offering gentle encouragement can make a big difference. Creating a safe, supportive space really helps shy students find their voice over time.

  • @Sayeda-Afshan Love the child you have. ...
    Build a safe base. ...
    Avoid negative labels. ...
    Build confidence through simple tasks. ...
    Be an empathetic role model. ...
    Plan ahead and practise with role play. ...
    Routines, rituals and repetition. ...
    Support small steps.

  • @MAHNOOR-Ali Accept yourself for being shy. Don't put on a mask of overconfidence.
    Use the countdown method to get yourself to initiate conversations.
    Smile when speaking with others.
    Demonstrate a genuine interest in getting to know others.
    Be comfortable with your appearance.

  • @Sanam Help your child learn to do things. ...
    Praise efforts. ...
    Be honest. ...
    Be a good role model. ...
    Avoid being critical. ...
    Focus on strengths. ...
    Notice what goes well. ...
    Encourage healthy friendships.