“When I Speaks Too Loud, We Disappears”

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@Shaista-Begum Thank you for such a timely, soul-stirring reminder. May we all speak less to impress, and more to understand. And may we learn to listen with the heart, not just the ears — because in the silence of true listening, transformation begins

@Shaista-Begum
Thank you, Shaista Begum, for this profoundly reflective and soul-stirring message. Your words don’t just speak they invite silence, introspection, and a much-needed pause in today’s self-centered noise.
Your breakdown of why we often overuse “I” and underuse “we” is not only thoughtful but deeply human. We all want to be seen and valued but as you beautifully reminded us, true connection is built through listening, humility, and shared purpose.
The line “Me is already included in We” carries such quiet power it’s a reminder that greatness doesn’t require spotlighting ourselves but lifting others alongside us.
Let’s move toward a world where we listen to understand, speak to uplift, and lead not from the front, but from within the circle. Thank you for guiding us on this

@Sanaa "I" speaks too loud = When ego, pride, or personal voice becomes dominant.

"We" disappears = The sense of community, relationship, or unity fades.

@Sanaa In some relationships, one voice overpowering the other leads to the loss of mutual respect or understanding.

@Mariya-Rajpar Sometimes love, connection, and understanding grow in quietness.

Too much noise, control, or attention-seeking breaks that silent connection.

@Sanaa Speaking loudly engages the vocal cords more forcefully, similar to how physical exertion strains muscles. This can lead to inflammation and swelling of the vocal cords, affecting their vibration and resulting in voice changes.

@Mariya-Rajpar Speaking loudly engages the vocal cords more forcefully, similar to how physical exertion strains muscles. This can lead to inflammation and swelling of the vocal cords, affecting their vibration and resulting in voice changes.

@Shaista-Begum While loud talking might seem like a way to be heard, it can also be interpreted negatively by others. It can be perceived as aggressive, inconsiderate, or even a sign of emotional distress.

@Sanaa While loud talking might seem like a way to be heard, it can also be interpreted negatively by others. It can be perceived as aggressive, inconsiderate, or even a sign of emotional distress.

Learning proper vocal techniques, such as using breath support and avoiding excessive shouting, can help prevent vocal strain and promote healthy voice projection.