“When I Speaks Too Loud, We Disappears”

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@Shaista-Begum Shaista Begum, your message resonates deeply — not just as a reflection, but as a mirror to how our modern world often functions.

@Shaista-Begum We live in an age where individual identity is constantly broadcast — through status updates, achievements, and personal branding. While there's nothing wrong with recognizing our own value, you’ve beautifully reminded us of something more powerful: the quiet strength of humility and connection.

@Shaista-Begum
🧠 Your question — "Why do we speak more than we listen?" — pierces through modern habits.
Often, we confuse speaking with strength, and silence with weakness. But as you highlighted, listening requires far more courage. It requires us to step back, dissolve ego, and give space to another soul. That is not passive — that is powerful.

@Shaista-Begum
"Me is already included in We" — this is a line that deserves to be printed on every school wall and every heart. In a time where collaboration is essential, we still hold tightly to "I" like a badge of honor. But true leadership, true wisdom, is when one uplifts many — not by standing above them, but among them.

@Shaista-Begum
From Ubuntu philosophy to your closing metaphor of a candle lighting another — your message gently calls us to a collective awakening:
To let our achievements inspire, not isolate.
To let our stories connect, not compete.
To let our speech be balanced with presence and listening.

@Shaista-Begum Thank you for such a timely, soul-stirring reminder. May we all speak less to impress, and more to understand. And may we learn to listen with the heart, not just the ears — because in the silence of true listening, transformation begins

@Shaista-Begum
Thank you, Shaista Begum, for this profoundly reflective and soul-stirring message. Your words don’t just speak they invite silence, introspection, and a much-needed pause in today’s self-centered noise.
Your breakdown of why we often overuse “I” and underuse “we” is not only thoughtful but deeply human. We all want to be seen and valued but as you beautifully reminded us, true connection is built through listening, humility, and shared purpose.
The line “Me is already included in We” carries such quiet power it’s a reminder that greatness doesn’t require spotlighting ourselves but lifting others alongside us.
Let’s move toward a world where we listen to understand, speak to uplift, and lead not from the front, but from within the circle. Thank you for guiding us on this

@Sanaa "I" speaks too loud = When ego, pride, or personal voice becomes dominant.

"We" disappears = The sense of community, relationship, or unity fades.

@Sanaa In some relationships, one voice overpowering the other leads to the loss of mutual respect or understanding.

@Mariya-Rajpar Sometimes love, connection, and understanding grow in quietness.

Too much noise, control, or attention-seeking breaks that silent connection.